It’s a New Year. Time for resolutions and resolve. Hopes and dreams.
Around the world, people are choosing their resolutions. Yet, you know how that goes. You begin strong and full of vim and vigor. Then, like many, you lose your focus and momentum. Until Summer when you find your journal and that entry filled with resolutions and hope.
Research from the University of Bristol suggests that 88% of New Year’s resolutions fail with a large amount simply forgotten along the way.
And yet, a New Year offers a New Threshold. A glimpse into your potential. A recommitment to live a life more aligned with meaning, and pleasure, and purpose.
There is good energy behind this intent. I applaud and encourage you to create a way of being that is deeply meaningful, enjoyable, and purposeful. Use the New Year energy. And the new moon energy. And any positive practice and action which supports your intent.
I’m a big fan of Tiny Actions.
What might you do today to take a small step toward these aspirations? That’s just one question but you can use it everyday. Tiny actions over time changes the world. To be specific, your world. And when your world changes, then mine claims that potential as well. I thank you for that. I can use all the Tiny Action momentum you have to offer.
Along the way, I hope you listen to the voice of your Soul more than the clamor of society.
I’ve discovered that this clamor, streaming in 24/7 from the world, has taken up residence in my mind and rented space in my body. Like a guest invited for dinner who is still here a year later. I don’t recall inviting the world to live in me, yet, despite my best intentions, here it is.
I find it harder to listen to my Soul with all this noise.
I’ve never done a silent retreat. I’m not even that good of a meditator.
I like to stream the wisdom of the Angels, the Sacred Feminine, or the Great Wisdom. This is my comfort zone which opens me to the Divine in ways that make me whole.
I love to be on retreat and learn from genius teachers, ponder a bit on my own, and gather with like minded souls for depth discussion. Preferably in a warm climate full of sunshine and scattered hammocks. But that’s not what is unfolding for me at the start of a hopeful New Year.
Instead, I’ll sit with my own nature. In silence.
In preparation, I’ve finished my work and cleared my schedule. I’ll be putting away my phone and computer. Wondering who I’ll be without work – such a strong part of my identity. Choosing to step away from television, leaving the house, talking to anyone (perhaps my dog on occasion), and limiting access to reading material.
I have a blank journal, two books from a wise man, and one short audio course to guide my Path. And silence.
In anticipation of returning to the world, I unsubscribed from all my emails. All of them. That in itself was a bit disconcerting. What if I needed that information? What if I insulted my friend or colleague by signing off? What if I missed something? One thing that surprised me as I let go was how much thought I had about it. I expected the relief from clearing my clutter, but not the mild anxiety as I let go and let go.
And so it begins.
People are excited for me. I’m grateful for that. I’m not excited. I’ve got lots of trepidation. As if I’m heading off to climb Everest rather than sit in my room for over a week. My goodness. That clamor in my mind has so much to say. I wonder what happens when I’ve nothing else to distract me from its noise. I wonder what I’ll discover as I listen more deeply in the stillness than I do in my movement.
I received some lovely advice as I prepared to unplug. Be patient. Be curious. Be tremendously kind to yourself. Offers of prayers, love, and support. And a precious mantra “I have everything I need.”
And you do as well. I hope you discover a way to connect so deeply with your Soul in this coming year. I wish that for me as well. This year, may we dive deeply into the wonder of existence only to find that we’ve always resided there.
Quietly splendid.
Peace be with you and with all. No exceptions.
Your brain likes to meditate. Silent contemplation, or simply closing your eyes and breathing, activates neural pathways that support calm. These pathways underlie beneficial traits such as feeling present, grateful, and steady. With meditation you can deliberately stimulate that circuitry and bring such experience into awareness. Activating calm, steadfastness, and contentment within your body actually converts those experiences into lasting change in neural structure and function. Explore psychologist Rick Hanson’s books Neurodharma and Buddha’s Brain to understand neuroplasticity and the benefits of meditation.
Learn the one essential skill that allows you to face any challenge with confidence, sturdiness, and inner calm.
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ia Sophia has arrived. This “Way of Wisdom” offers an invitation to step upon a Living Spiral Path and discover a new understanding of what it means to embody the Mystical Feminine.
For the past fifteen years I have lived and taught within the Mystical Feminine. I have sat within many circles and immersions with women as we explored how to practically and powerfully engage Feminine wisdom in everyday life.
When my daughter was in eighth grade, she and her Girl Scout troop were beginning to explore ideas for their individual Silver Award projects.
Around our dinner table, we tossed around possibilities. Nothing landed. Nothing stirred real interest. So we encouraged her to do what we have always trusted. Stay open. Listen. Pay attention to what people are talking about in the world.
Driving into Soul Sanctuary last weekend, I noticed the trees were engaged in a wild dance.
I should have paid closer attention as I got out of the car, because the wind nearly took me with it. Walking to the door, I had to lean in and brace myself for a moment just to stay upright. The cold whipped through my clothes and found every uncovered space, sharing its bone-numbing chill.
We recently had a big snow in my neck of the woods.
Everyone was hunkered down. The fridge was full, chicken soup was bubbling on the stove, and my book pile sat patiently on the coffee table. As the snow covered the neighborhood and the plows dumped fresh mounds over our carefully shoveled walk, we took turns peeking outside.
As a kid, snowstorms were pure joy.
“I think we need to be friends.”
Those were the first words out of my mouth when I introduced myself to Rev. Hilda Covington. We’d just finished a county meeting of nonprofit mental health and social service agencies. She was the presenter that month. We almost didn’t meet because Hilda arrived an hour and a half late to a two-hour meeting.
Life has a rhythm. It speeds up and slows down according to mysterious forces.
Your personal rhythm dances with the celestial bodies, seasons of the year, developmental phases, and the pulse of your Soulful evolutionary process. Living in harmony with these rhythms is in many ways hard to understand as it is a complicated and deeply personal process. Your rhythm dances with everyone’s rhythm in the grand Cosmic Dance.
